There is a phenomenon going on in society related to dating and to the results of feminism gone too far, which is ‘Men going their own way’. This describes men who are tired of the issues in dating, many of which are actually caused by indoctrination of women into becoming something that is not natural to them, and that is not healthy for both the men and women from a psychological standpoint. This has been long coming, the roots of this lie far further back than you may think, and especially the last few years the effects of these issues in society are clear to see.
Many men are tired of women who are superficially looking for fun, for providers for their lifestyle, and who not willing to make a commitment in return to the men they are dating. These women are in many respects doing what men have been doing… So society as a whole is getting worse instead of better.
So instead of having a family, such men who describe themselves as ‘going their own way’, do whatever they like, with their interests, hobbies, sports, or even just watching TV or spend their time online, from simple games, to betting such as on PlayAmo casino.
Is this a healthy way of living? I think not. These men are avoiding the issue, and many others who are commenting about this are advocating ‘game playing’ in response in dating. I mean that such men are then told that it’s good to be not-serious in dating, and just (pretend to) play games with the women if they give them some stupid response or stupid reason why they are not interested in dating such as “Well, I wasn’t really interested in you, but I needed some diversion tonight”. This just makes the issue worse as the women who are serious but who are really not interested for some valid reason, get insulted and this causes a response from men. It is like an eye for an eye: If you engage in such revenge philosophy the end result would be that the entire world would be blind (as everyone can get offended by being some relative, friend, associate of the person and so a chain reaction continues until there is no one left).
What you should do, as a man, but also a woman, is to be serious and not play games about your intentions. If some woman or man plays a game, tell her or him that you are not interested in game players and that such people only cause problems.
This is the same in any area of life, such as in business. People not discussing a bad boss for example makes it possible that such people stay in the positions they are in, and stay in power from the games they play. These can be for example pretending someone else is on your side in thinking how the business should be run. I heard of such a case recently where a disliked boss made it look like another person from another department was on his side, to try to make others do what he wants as from this person being on his side, they think that they likely won’t get anywhere complaining about his actions.
With MGTOW these men will realise at some point that they may have enjoyed themselves, and done all they want with their interests, hobbies, sports, and had very little in duties to perform other than clean the house and pay the bills, the fact that they didn’t help children grow up, have someone different to share the essence of life with, makes life rather empty and I suspect they will realise this at some point, at which point doing it differently to make changes will be very hard. After all, dating is much easier when you are young than when you are older… I’m not just talking about dealing with divorced women, but simply getting a connection and being more flexible to make small changes in your own life and views for another person to fit in.
